Blurring the Lines Between Mother and Daughter

“The moment a child is born, the mother is also born.  She never existed before.  The woman existed, but the mother, never.  A mother is something absolutely new” Rajneesh   I never needed my mother more than the very first day I became a mother.   The day I delivered my first child, I worked from 8:00a-6:00p and complained of cramps from 8:00a-6:00p.  How was I supposed to know I was in labor?  It was two weeks before my due date and I had never had labor pains before.  It was also the hottest day on record for April … [Read more...]

FRIDAY-FOOD-FRENZY – Take a DIP for the 4th!

Are you scheduled to have a house/apartment full of people this holiday weekend? Or, are you mooching off your "good" friends?  Either way, you should definitely have a dip.  And no, not a dip in the pool--I'm hoping you're already planning to do that.   Here  are two quick dip recipes for you to print out and put in your back pocket for your last minute weekend grocery trip.  They're easy to make (hey, remember, if I can do it, anyone can).  They're chock full of very basic ingredients. They compliment any classic 4th of July burgers-and-dogs … [Read more...]

When Talking “Dirty” is No Longer Sexy

I’m embarrassed.  I’m ashamed.  I’m miffed. No, I don’t have sexual incompatability issues with my husband. No, I haven’t overheard my 9-year old whispering seductive words to her friend on the subway. I’m horrified that I’ve been using fruits and vegetables laden with pesticides and rancid chemicals and you-name-it in my children’s diet --without really thinking about it.  I live in New York City.  All you have to do is step outside your apartment door and shop from the random fruit and vegetable vendor who is camped on every dirty … [Read more...]

Judy’s Black Bottom Cupcakes: far from rock bottom

Today ranks in THE TOP 5 HARDEST EXPERIENCES I’ve ever had as a parent.  I sent my “baby” off to sleep away camp in Maine.  I know this was a choice that we made so I can’t whine.  But, there’s something so wretched about loosening the “grip” on your child, watching them wave to you through the tinted windows of the bus, only to turn their head and vanish into the summer.  Knowing this day would come, we carefully scheduled a weekend chock-full of family activities.  We wanted to eek out as much quality time together as humanly possible.  First … [Read more...]